Matthew 6:24-34
Fresh out of business school, a young man answered a want ad for an accountant. Now he was being interviewed by a very nervous man who ran a small business that he had started himself. “I need someone with an accounting degree,” the man said. “But mainly, I’m looking for someone to do my worrying for me.” “Excuse me?” the accountant said. “I worry about a lot of things,” the man said. “But I don’t want to have to worry about money. Your job will be to take all the money worries off my back.”
“I see,” the accountant said. “And how much does the job pay?” “I’ll start you at eighty thousand.” “Eighty thousand dollars!” the accountant exclaimed. “How can such a small business afford a sum like that?” “That,” the owner said, “is your first worry.”
In Great Britain the average woman spends seven years and ten days out of her life stressing, while men spend five years, eight months and 23 days. In an online survey of 1,500 people, researchers found that the cost of living and energy prices overtook personal health as the biggest concerns in 2008. Also in the top ten topics were bills and income, debt, recession, unemployment, crime, pensions and relationships. Other issues are ID fraud, immigration, aging, children’s future, obesity, global warming, house prices and weather (from the daily mail, UK, online news, February 25, 2011). Do these sound like things you have worried about?
I could not find any statistics for the United States but I have a hunch that they are very similar to those of Great Britain. So men, there is something that we can teach the women in our lives, that is how not to worry so much.
The Things We Tend to Worry About
Over 2,000 years ago Jesus Christ understood the main things that tend to thrust us into worry and anxiety. He starts, though, in His analysis where most people do not. Jesus understands the root cause of worry. When the root is identified then true help and healing can be found.
This is why Jesus starts out this section of the Sermon on the Mount saying, “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.” (Mt. 6:24) When you make anyone or anything other than the one true God the ultimate focus of your devotion then you have divorced yourself from His fatherly protection, care, and concern and you are on your own. At that point you take on the weight of the world. You have taken that which belongs to God and put it on your own shoulders.
By consciously or unconsciously saying that you are more concerned with the things of this world, what you will eat or what you will drink, or about your body, what kind of clothes you will wear, than with the true God who created you and preserves you then you are a functional agnostic or atheist. You might not say this explicitly but in your heart and with your actions this is how you are living your life. As a functional unbeliever then you have no trust in God to provide for your needs. If you do not trust that God will provide for your needs then you and you alone are the master of your fate and the captain of your soul. It’s all up to you baby to make sure that you have all you need to survive.
With such a mindset everything will probably be fine and dandy for you as long as you have a good job, a good income flow, you are able to pay all your bills and enjoy some of the luxuries of life. But if you are the master of your fate and the captain of your soul and in the process lose your income, lose your employment, lose your health, lose some of the earthly pillars and props that have helped you maintain this sense of security, then what will you do?
Many people are functional atheists. They say they believe in God, that they trust in Him as Lord and Savior; they confess faith in all of the stated dogmas of Christianity but there is an enormous disconnect between what they say they believe and the way they actually live their lives. This is because they have not really allowed Christ to be Lord of their entire lives. They have allowed Him to have control of their reason but not how they carry out things in a practical way every day.
You might call this compartmentalizing God. God you have my attention on Sunday mornings for an hour. I will even listen to you occasionally throughout the week when I remember to open my Bible or read a devotional out of Portals of Prayer or some other book, but the rest of the time I do what I want to do. I call the shots in my business, in my family, in my relationships. I’m boss there. This is a life that is not fully yielded to Christ and I’m afraid that we succumb to this kind of living all too easy. We don’t realize that God wants to be in control of every aspect of our lives, that every aspect has spiritual implications, even when we are playing golf or pinochle. Sometimes we think that the Scriptures were written thousands of years ago so how could they possibly pertain to some of the things I am involved with today? It is shocking and surprising how pertinent the Scriptures are to our lives today. And if they don’t directly speak to every detail of our lives, God’s Spirit still wants to lead and direct us.
So, if we have retained control of our lives and do not relinquish to God our all of ourselves but want to maintain control then when some of the difficulties that I spoke about earlier come careening into our lives what usually happens? Everything seems like it is out of control. In today’s economy, if you lose your job its not that easy to pick up another one like it was two or three years ago. If the doctor informs you that you have cancer and there is a chance you could die, if God is not the captain of your life what do you do? Most people start to worry.
I don’t have a job. Unemployment will run out in two weeks. I won’t be able to make my next house payment. I might have to face foreclosure. All of my belongings will be thrown out on the street. My wife and children and I will be humiliated in front of the whole neighborhood. And where will we live? You start obsessing on these depressing scenarios and pretty soon you are a wreck. You are full of anxiety and worry.
The Effects of Worry (physically and spiritually)
Excessive worry, obsessively focusing on the problems and difficulties that you face in life profoundly affect the body and social interaction. If you are already chronically worry and your mind and body are compromised because of this when life stressors impact you like an argument with a spouse, a fender bender accident, unfair criticism from a coworker or a baby that won’t stop crying, your body reacts. Then the “fight or flight” response is easily triggered in your body because of the excess stress you are already feeling.
Your body’s sympathetic nervous system releases stress hormones like cortisol. These hormones elevate the blood sugar and triglyceride levels that your body normally uses for fuel. Some of the negative effects of these unusually high chemical levels in your body are difficulty swallowing, dizziness, dry mouth, fast heartbeat, fatigue, headaches, inability to concentrate, irritability, muscle aches, muscle tension, nausea, nervous energy, rapid breathing, shortness of breath, sweating, trembling and twitching.
Long term affects of worry and the stress it brings on are: short-term memory loss, digestive problems, premature coronary artery disease and heart attack.
My friend is the pastor of a church. They have been going through some difficulties and the president of the congregation was called upon to help mediate. He became so worried and stressed because of the problems that the congregation was enduring that he had a heart attack. I’m not saying that this man was a functional agnostic or atheist but he did allow the congregational problem to so overwhelm him that he lost perspective and it cost him dearly.
Jesus Prescribes the Perfect Alternative to Worry—Trust in Him!
So does our Christian faith carry with it practical implications for our everyday life in this world that at times can bombard us with worry and stress if we are not careful? It sure does if we follow it, if we practice it as God desires us to rather than compartmentalize it.
Jesus reminds us of the birds of the air and the lilies of the field. The birds of the air, unlike humans, don’t gather food and store it so that in future, when food is less plentiful they will have reserves to fall back on. The birds just live from day to day, boldly trusting that there will be a supply of food.
The lilies of the field burst forth in vibrant, breath-taking yellows, whites, oranges, blues and other hues in the springtime. They don’t work at making themselves beautiful, that’s just how God in His infinite wisdom and power designed them to be.
If God feeds the birds and opulently clothes lilies, He will most certainly meet every one of our needs, we who are His most precious creation. This God loves and adores us so much that He sent His only begotten Son, Whom He loved from eternity, with Whom He has been in eternal communion from before the foundation of the world, to redeem us with His precious blood. If God did this for us, surely He will meet every one of our needs. Note I said NEEDS; God does not promise to give us everything we want because not everything we want is good for us and God can determine much better than us what we really need and what might ultimately turn out to be harmful to our souls.
God wants to be the master of your fate and the captain of your soul. When we let the creator of the universe, who loves loves us take control of our life then all worries melt away. We realize that we are resting in the palm of His hand and our names are engraved there. We realize that there is no better place to be.
Here are some words from secular sages that echo our Savior’s wisdom. “Do not anticipate trouble or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight. ~Benjamin Franklin “Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do, but it gets you nowhere.” ~Glenn Turner “For peace of mind, resign as general manager of the universe.” ~Author Unknown “Fear can keep us up all night long, but faith makes one fine pillow.” ~Philip Gulley Amen.